Your research-based guide to getting more of what you want at end-of-life.
A decade of research. Scores of interviews. Personal experience.
Real-world stories and research-based strategies that help you understand why the healthcare system sometimes hurts more than it helps, and what you can do about it—even while you’re healthy.
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WHY KAREN?
I Get What You’re Up Against.
Struggling to get clear, timely, and compassionate information from the healthcare system? Feel dismissed or gaslit when you raise your concerns? It’s not just you—there are systematic reasons this happens. Here’s how I tackle the big challenges:
Giving you tools to resist gaslighting
Teaching you about types of end-of-life care
Showing you why communication breaks down
I share information that can help you get better care
WHAT I BRING TO THE TABLE
25+ Years of Academic Experience
Check out my published research on clinical decision making and end-of-life healthcare
Meet the Author.
Karen Lutfey Spencer is a professor and sociologist studying medical decision making, doctor-patient relationships, and health disparities—especially how inequality shows up in our healthcare systems. For the past decade she’s focused why our lived experiences of death and dying are so often at odds with healthcare ideals, and how we can get the care we want (and deserve!)
Testimonials
“Thank you for sharing this information [about how few people have advanced directives]! I’m 32 and talk to my friends about this often. I say, ‘So,hey, y’all are married and have kids. What’s your plan?!’ And it’s almost always, ‘Never thought about it.’”
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“I cannot recommend Karen and her writing enough. EVERYONE should be reading her!!”
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“I just read your ‘Dying for Sex’ post on Substack. It was so informative and enjoyable to read, specifically your literate and open writing style. I was immediately drawn in and connecting your points to my own life experiences… I look forward to your continued posts!”
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